Resources

Kinky Portland

Sub Rosa My kinky education and play space! This is where I do sessions and host weekly classes. My space is also available for rentals to the local kink community as well as traveling kinksters as long as you have some references!

Fifty Shades of STFU and Quink Monthly play parties hosted by my business partner Viola Parker.

SheBop Portland Based feminist sex shop with body safe products, some fun locally made toys, as well as classes.

KinkFest The west coast’s premiere BDSM and kink conference, offering educational workshops, play parties, leather and fetish vendors and community meeting space.

PDX Munch Calendar (we have one almost every day of the week!) hosted by the Portland Leather Alliance.

Taboo All your basic sex toys, although not the highest quality, as well as video booths and glory holes.

Spartacus Lots of sex toys, as well as a healthy dose of kink supplies.

Local Kinky Photographers Document your hotness!

Portland Creates I love Peter’s noir look! Most of the newer photos on this site were taken by him. #TeamHuffleBuff

Amber Red Photo Old skool PNW punk and pin-up photographer.

Favorite Fetish Clothing Sites Life is short, wear your party pants! – Loretta LaRoche

Leathererotics My favorite place to get quaility affordable leather. Great customer service.

Lux Leather Bespoke lambskin. I would wear nothing but clothing from Lux if I could afford it.

Fernando Berlin Boots Made to order leather boots

Northbound Leather Beautiful leather. Horrible customer service.

Timeless Trends Corsets

Orchard Corsets

What Katie Did Vintage Inspired Lingerie that is simply the best.

Bare Necessities Their free and easy returns, as well as their wide range of sizes makes this my favorite place to get lingerie.

Curvy Kate Stunning and sultry lingerie for larger cup sizes. One of the only places I can always find my 34G. And please, for the love of boobs, go to a real bra store to get measured. Do NOT take what Vickys tells you as gospel. They are in the business of selling you bras. Not making sure you are comfortable. You deserve to be comfortable.

The Lingerie Addict My absolute favorite place for finding new lingerie. Great reviews and educational bits. Like, how often you really need to wash your bra.

Dark Gardens Dreamy custom corsets seen everywhere from celebrity weddings to fetish parties.

BDSM Toys

Fetters I would like one of each please! I have a serious thirsty lust for their bondage stuffs.

Mr S Lovely leather and fetish items. Gift certificates from Mr S are ALWAYS appreciated.

Agreeably Agony Beautiful rope and leather impact toys made by some of my favorite peoples.

Spandex Wear Beautiful spandex zentai suits and mummy bags.

Church of Sinvention Deliciously devious toys…

Keyed Alike If you use a lot of locks, make sure they are keyed alike for safety!

Pavlok Habit tracker, but allows anyone with a link to send a little jolt.

Tenuto Wearable vibe for men. Can be controlled remotely through an app.

Remote Control Estim For when you need to hurt someone who isn’t in the room with you.

Remote Control Stroker Bluetooth controller for your fleshlight.

Lovense Remote controlled vibrators and plugs for teasing and tormenting those you can’t be in the same room with.

Straight Jacket Shop Custom canvas restraints, body bags, and straight jackets. Lots of lovely ABDL and medical as well.

Adult Baby and Diaper Lover Resources

Bambino Diapers
Binkies and Bows
Adult Baby Shop
Lucky Stars Leather
The Big Little Podcast
Cosy N Dry
The Straight Jacket Shop Adult baby bondage supplies!

Cross dressing and Sissification

The Sissy Store
Leanne’s Pretty Dresses
Super Dresses

Chastity Devices

DreamLover Labs High Tech Chastity
Holy Trainer Resin Chastity Devices
Mature Metal Metal Cages
CB-X The CB 3000, 6000 and The Curve
Steel Worxx Lovely Cages
Caged.App Lovely chastity lock boxes, as well as other chastity toys.
Mini Safe: Time Locking Container
USB Timed Padlock
Cellmate: Chastity cage controlled via an app.

Sex Bloggers I Adore If I’d observed all the rules, I’d never have got anywhere. – Marilyn Monroe

GirlBoner One of my favorite people on the web! Where good girls go for sexual empowerment, August McLaughlin writes about body image and women’s sexuality. Her podcast is not to be missed!

Ruby Ryder’s Pegging Paradise The best place on the web to learn about pegging for men, women and couples.

Walker Thornton Writer and speaker Walker Thornton is here to answer your questions and dispel myths about women, sex and aging.

Joan Price Speaker, educator and advocate for ageless sexuality.

Sex Out Loud Radio Tristan Taormino will interview leading authors, educators, artists and icons and give you an uncensored, inside look at alternative sexual practices and communities. She’ll delve into topics from the popular to the taboo, including erotic fantasies, BDSM, non-monogamy, the adult industry, and more.

Sex, Kink and BDSM Education Whip it. Whip it good. – Devo

Kink Craft For those who are DIY, or want to create a personal touch to your kinky toolbox, I present Kink Crafts.

Jessica Drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Plus Size Hot educational film for enjoying sex as, or with your plus size partner.

Jessica Drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Senior Sex Senior sex author and educator Joan Price teams up with jessica drake to bring you practical tips for increasing your sexual pleasure through the decades ahead, plus explicit demonstrations by a cast of sexy seniors. 

Kink Academy Tons of educational videos on pretty much every fetish and kink.

Books:
The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The New Bottoming Book
The New Topping Book
The Mistress Manual
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé
The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex
The Big Book for Littles: Tips & Tricks for Age Players & Their Partners
Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
Embraceable: Empowering Facts and True Stories About Women’s Sexuality

Kinky Sexy Books

Bawdy Bookworms A quarterly box containing a steamy book, a fun new sex toy and a few other fun sensual surprises.

The Sleeping Beauty Chronicles This is the BDSM erotica I first read as a very young Domina so it’s always going to be a favorite. It’s a delightfully twisted BDSM fantasy.

Anything By Rachel Kramer Brussel Whenever people are new to kink or erotica, I refer them to her books. They are themed compilations with numerous contributors. Something is sure to spark your interest and start you down an erotic rabbit hole.

sissy sandra in training: The (mis)adventures of sissy sandra in training, the real, true to life sissy in training to the premiere sissification & humiliation

Steaming Streaming Porn A lot of people are afraid to say what they want. That’s why they don’t get what they want. – Madonna

For The Girls Beautifully shot softcore stills and video aimed at tantalizing a more mainstream palate. Great shots of hot men masturbating too!

Crash Pad Series The continuing story of a secret apartment in San Francisco dedicated to hot, queer sex.

Queer Porn TV A wide variety of gender queer, kinky, dirty sex made by people who love to make porn.

Trouble Films The porn studio of Courtney Trouble offering sex positive queer porn with diverse casts.

Feminist Porn Awards When all else fails, or when looking for something new, spend some time cruising the nominees. I’m certain you will find something, or someone, engaging.

Sex Toy Reviews If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun. – Katharine Hepburn

Hey Epiphora Wit and biting sarcasm and spot-on sex toy reviews. What’s not to love. “This is where sex toys go to be judged.”

Oh Joy Sex Toy Highly entertaining as well as educational sex toys reviews in graphic novel style.

Support Don’t compromise yourself. You are all you’ve got. – Janis Joplin

RAINN Rape Abuse Incest National Network
Human Right Campaign – Coming Out Resources
Lorena’s Red Wagon – Domestic Abuse Awareness
Violence Unsilenced
Planned Parenthood
SRG The Sex, Gender, and Relationships Hotline based in San Francisco

Sex Ed for Kids To have that sense of one’s intrinsic worth…is potentially to have everything. -Joan Didion

It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (book)
Scarleteen
Sex is a Funny Word: A Book about Bodies, Feelings, and YOU
What Makes A Baby
Why This Sudden Trend In Trans Kids Informative post by a trans-woman about her gender journey.

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