D is for Diaper Humiliation

Diaper Humiliation

Baby Buttons and I made a book! It’s a fun little alphabet book for adult babies who enjoy a little humiliation with their diaper play. I would love to see pictures of it out in the wild! If you get a copy, please post to twitter so I can see!

I’m a HUGE fan of diaper play and while I do enjoy the dominant maternal side of things occasionally, I really enjoy the humiliation of it all. And in that way, Baby Buttons gets me. Or more likely, I get him. Forever and ever as it turns out, because I have all the originals photos that the book is based on.

Remember our trip to Disneyland? My dream is to return to Disneyland someday with this book. I would love to read it to him on one of the benches in the quiet area near The Grand Californian. I would imagine a day in Disney with their Mommy Domme would be dreamy, but a day in Disney, getting read a book about diaper humiliation in which you are the star? Dreams don’t get any bigger than that!

Even when people are fairly open about their kinks when it’s leather/latex/bondage or one of the more traditional kinks, they are quiet about enjoying ABDL. Here in Portland, Oregon where people let their freak flag fly quite openly, they will downplay the ABDL play. It’s usually only when they talk to me on their own that they will mention their interest in diapers or age play.

I feel like 50 Shades of Grey made it ok for everyone to talk about kink, even if the conversation just started out talking about how badly written That Book was. Diaper play and ABDL did not benefit from that social boost and still holds a lot of stigma, and that’s a shame.

For some people, being able to regress to a younger, more helpless age is the ultimate submission. Using the toilet is one of the first things we learn as a child. We are rewarded, punished, humiliated for our ability to control that bodily functions by the very first person of power in our lives. It’s natural to want to return to that state, even if your can’t consciously remember that time in your life.

And for someone like me who loves humiliation and predicament play, what’s would keep you more on edge then worrying if you diaper will leak. Or if someone will hear that subtle crinkle when you walk? Or smell it? Or notice that bulge? The possibilities are endless, if you can get past the internalized shame to enjoy the consensual humiliation.

Check out what other mommies think!

The Changing Room: An Diaper Play Webinar

The Changing Room: An ABDL Webinar

While bondage and spanking received a huge boost in mainstream appeal from 50 Shades, diaper play remains a fetish seeped in shame.

I’ve been playing with age and diaper play since nearly the beginning of my 25+ femdom journey when I found myself babysitting for another Pro Domme’s ABDL client. I’m not sure, had I not had that experience, that I would have ventured into age play as I had some flawed assumptions about ABDL play. Despite getting into some pretty weird traditional play, ABDL just seemed like.. too much. Too weird. Among the leather crowd there was a hierarchy. Bondage and pain are at the top, ABDL is at the bottom, just under cross dressing.

Thing is, while I love the more traditional aspects of BDSM, I also love the weird stuff.

I’ve found diaper play fulfills my maternal dominant side, as well as my twisted mind fuckery dominant side as well. I’ve also loved providing a safe place for people to share their interest in diapers. Because so often, those people feel like they are the only one. A lost lonely soul with THAT weird fetish. In reality, there are many people interested in diaper play, but no one is talking about it. Not even with their kinky friends.

Thursday I will be joining forces for a visit to The Changing Room, Diaper Play Webinar with Mistress Evilyne of London. The two of us will discuss our interests in diaper play, and share a few fun stories. Attendees are invited to share theirs in the chat. Towards the end, if you have an outfit to show off, you will be invited to raise your hand and join Mistress Evilyne and I on screen.

Of course if you want to stay in the chat, we totally understand.

The goal of the webinar is to start a conversation about diaper and age play and the webinar will have a conversational tone. FemDoms who are interested in learning more about diaper play are invited to join, as well as those who enjoy wearing diapers.

There will also be a special appearance and performance by Baby Buttons who is co-author of my new book: D is for Diaper Humiliation. Because yes. I love diaper humiliation so much, I made my baby write a book about it.

Thornhaven: A FemDom Utopia


I’ve been trying to figure out how to make my OnlyFans entertaining, first, and foremost, for me. I’m not someone who wants to record a never ending stream of FemDom videos for your amusement. That simply doesn’t amuse ME. I’ve been a professional dominatrix for 25 years. You all should know what I think of you. What I expect of you. Not that I won’t occasionally have video’s reminding you of your place in my world.

(Reminder: You are here for my amusement. I expect you to be plugged, pantied, with your cock caged, and ready to submit to my every whim mind, body, and soul.)

Not that I can’t wait to see you in person. I am busting at the seams to do all manner of humiliating, emasculating naughtiness to you and your eager holes.

Ongoing Erotic FemDom Audio Story

My quarantine project will be to record an ongoing serial about my fantasy femdoom world: Thornhaven. Thornhaven is a hidden utopia where women strip men of their former patriarchal beliefs, and rebuilt into something much more useful for all womankind. Depending on their needs, they may find themselves at Birch Academy, or as a member of The Pink Posse.

Some of the men join willingly, knowing they need to be reprogrammed. Other men are sent there by wives and girlfriends. Minimum training is 6 months, but most men decide to stay much longer to pursue their training.

Women may play as tops or bottoms as they wish.

Thornhaven, after all, is the inescapable ultimate escape. No obligations but to do as they are told. No pressure to perform the usual patriarchal male bullshit. Men are objects of desire. Pets to be trained. Their only goal in life to make the women of Thornhaven happy.

You know you want to join me. (Next 10 people to sign up get half off the first month.) Each week there will be two new episodes as well as other treats. I have some really fun, sexy developments coming your way. If you are looking for something a little different than the usual femdom porn.

A few warnings and caveats. I’m making this story up as I go along. Tip me and you may find yourself a character wound into the narrative. Also because I’m making this up as I go along, there will be continuity errors. Please enjoy the story while I find what works best for me.

Husband Training Through Hypnosis

Husband Training

I have always felt that erotic hypnosis was a powerful tool when dealing with sissies. I love to have this sound track running in the background during live sessions and watch as your will melt and my sweet little cocksuckers become eager, pliable little toys.

Because let’s face it. You are just more desirable in panties and lipstick. Sometimes it can be difficult to take that first step to becoming the object of my desire. Listening to my sultry voice guide you into that space can help. You do want me to desire you, don’t you? You want me to look at you with lust in my eyes again. The only way that’s going to happen is if you follow my direction carefully. Learn to put on your cock sucking red lipstick. Learn to wiggle that butt. Learn to walk in heels. LEARN TO SUCK COCK.

This hypnosis recording will help you empty your mind of all those pent up, frustrating (for all of us) male tendencies.

Once you are blank little cum hungry slate, I will mold you to my will. A little cuckolding, some cock sucking, a few make-up lessons and we are on our way to having a truly wonderful relationship.

And you do want to have a long lasting, intimate relationship with me, aren’t you. Not intimate sexually! You aren’t worth that. Intimate in that way in which I would look down at my adoring dog.

Whether you are training to become my cuckold sissy, or just cock hungry in general, hypnosis is a wonderful place to start to put you into the proper, pliable mindset.

Good little whore. Buy it. Listen to it all night on repeat.

You know you want to…

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Kinky Audio Stories on OnlyFans

Captured by Catwoman
Captured by Catwoman

Of all the places I pictured myself in 2020, OnlyFans was NOT one of them. But I also did not picture myself shutting Sub Rosa down and spending months on end locked in my house.

I keep thinking about filming clips, and have done a few, but it’s not something I enjoy. Not that I won’t post a few occasionally. I do have a Star Trek uniform as well as a Wonder Woman outfit that need to be shown off. Most of these will eventually find their way to Niteflirts and I Want Clips, but OnlyFans makes it so very easy to upload audio that there will always be fun little clips there exclusively.

The Alien Breeding Program
The Alien Breeding Program

OnlyFans is also my prefered way to chat with fans as well as current and prospective clients – and they make it easy for you to tip me should you wish. PROTIP! I will record requests from people on my OnlyFans. The weirder, the better. As much as I love creating traditional JOI/ chastity/ crossdressing content, I love weird SciFi even more. Kidnapped by aliens? Abducted by Catwoman? A land where women can steal men’s orgasms? I’M ALL IN.

And of course there will be hypnosis and mind control audios and videos.

Cuckolded by your wife and secretary
Cuckolded by your wife and secretary

I will be able to finally share naughtier images from sessions, when and if they resume. I’ve taken SO MANY amazing CBT and bondage and crossdressing photos that I could never share on Instagram or Twitter, so pretty much have to keep to myself. I may share photos from the past 25 years with stories or the weird adventures I’ve taken.

Truthfully. I’m not sure what my OnlyFans will morph into. Why not join me and find out?

Crawl across my lap...
Crawl across my lap…

Professional Domination in the Time of Covid

First let me start of by saying, I miss you! I miss having you at my feet. I miss your warm flesh trembling under my hands. I miss the rush from feeding off your desires, making them come to life, and tormenting you with them. I miss the physical, mental and kinky interactions. I am available to coaching and catch up calls, and I have thoroughly enjoyed them. But nothing comes close to the physical.

I’m starting to look at what my professional sessions will look like in the future. Some of that will be strictly safety oriented – fewer appointments with new submissives, masks, stricter cleaning protocols, touchless temperature taking at the door, me standing over you making you slowly count to 20 while you wash your hands after stripping at the door.

Yes. I can fetishize anything.

Part of my moving forward will be changing HOW I will be offering sessions. Part of what I have missed is the connection. Your mental submission. Our unique connection and interactions. I’ve always aimed for quality in connection over quantity of clients, and these days that is even more important to me. This will probably mean more outdoor sessions while the weather allows.

  • Me on my electric bike peddling effortlessly, you jogging along beside me struggling to keep up. Stopping eventually to have tea at a proper social distance.
  • Or perhaps just getting together for tea, without the physical torment. You plugged, pantied, and of course – caged. Me wearing your key around my neck.
  • Walks and kinky talks along the river.
  • Box lunches in the park. Me sitting across from you micromanaging your every bite.

I love real world submission and have often practiced these public games with those I especially enjoy. Now may be the time to widen those creative booking opportunities. While this would never fully replace playing in Sub Rosa, it is meant to offer both myself and my submissives alternatives to catching up on the phone while still being safe.

I’ve done a lot of talking to other Domina’s about what they will be doing to feel safe. I would love to hear from clients, both my regular submissives, as well as prospective newbies about what you would need to feel safe. What can you do to make your Domina feel safe seeing you?

Sex Scandal Prevention

Diaper Humiliation PDX

Several of you have mentioned missing my Sex Scandal Prevention site, so I’ve used my quarantine time to bring it back. Sex Scandal Prevention was started as a place to post my blackmail roleplay pictures and stories. During quarantine it’s proving a very fun way to play with consensual non-consent and public humiliation. Two of my favorite pastimes.

Photos go up – generally with a good portion of the identity hidden. Demands are made. When demands are met, the photos are taken down. Usually. If the demands are not met, a new version of the photo is released to the site – generally allowing a little bit more of the identity to show through. The general rule with the site are that as soon as the game is over, the images come down, although sometimes a few may be left up as a “warning” to others.

It never seems to scare you away though, does it.

The thrill of my having real life, tangible control over you can be intoxicating. Often, the demand or humiliating act I make you do isn’t as the fun bit. It’s that time in between when the photo (or other incriminating evidence) goes up and when I finally use my pull to force you into action.

It’s that deliciously dangerous time, waiting, knowing I have the info, knowing I will eventually use it, but not knowing when, how, or what you will be doing.

It’s the ultimate in loss of control. It’s mind fuckery at it’s finest.

Shall we play?

Disclaimer: I only do this kind of play with people who have requested it. As with all play, limits and interests are negotiated beforehand. Yes. I can negotiate this type of play and still fuck with your mind to the point where you will lay awake at night. I’m that good.

And let’s face it. You are weak when you are turned on. You make it easy for me.

Sun Salutations for Submissives

Sun Salutations for Sissy Sluts
Sun Salutations for Sissy Sluts

Hello my lovely cocksuckers!

This is the beginning of a project that I have been working on for a while – Yoga for Submissives. Many of you ask, when we talk about goals for long term sub training, to have a fitness goal. I am a huge fan of yoga and what it can do for your body – strengthen, lengthen, increase flexibility and lower stress. And every time I am in class, listening to the instructor guide us through breathing and meditation practices and encouraging us to push ourselves into increasingly perverted shapes, I started to think of my sissy sluts, and how much I would LOVE to see some of you take yoga and increase your flexibility for MY amusement. After talking to other Mistresses and finding that they too would love fit flexible subs, I decided to see if there was an interest from you sluts. Are you all talk? Or ready for action?

These recordings are meant for all sissy subs, not just my Pink Posse of Sluts. This one in particular is meant to be part of a daily Goddess Worship ritual, preparing your mind and body to better serve. When you purchase this recording, you will also receive a printable poster (seen above) for your alter to FemDom to help you remember to do this practice daily.

I’m really excited about this project. I love the idea of giving submissives a way to connect with their goddess daily, as well as giving myself, and my dominant friends, flexible submissives who are able to spread wider and wiggle their hips better. Not to mention, a flexible neck will make it easier to go from sucking cock to licking balls with one quick toss of the hair.

Plus? With a more flexible back, maybe you could finally suck your own cock!


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Orgasm Games

Orgasm games are one of my favorite topics, because it doesn’t matter what else you are into, from role play, to edge play, orgasm games can make it hotter.

Orgasm games include activities like tease and denial, edging, chastity as well as ruined orgasms. Tease and denial is exactly what it sounds like. Teasing your partner, denying them, teasing them some more. Chastity is controlling when your partner has access to their genitals, either through the use of rules, trust and self restraint, or through the use of chastity devices. Edging is taking yourself, or your partner, to the brink of orgasm, and backing off again. Edging can last all afternoon, or even span over a couple of days, building up intensity over time with each brink.

Ruining your partners orgasm, gives the person who is teasing, even more control to leverage, because it’s not as simple as yes, you can come, or no you can’t. Ruined orgasms mean the person who is doing the teasing can let the teasee think they are going to FINALLY get to come, then stopping the stimulation just as the orgasm begins.

Yes. That is evil. But it does keep an eager bottom on their toes.

If someone has their orgasm ruined, they tend to lose the ability, but not the urge, to orgasm. It can lead to some frustration, but means they are ready to play again sooner then if you let them orgasm, and they retain a lot of the eagerness built up through tease and denial and edging before their ruined orgasm. Once you ruin it once, they will forever be worried, and even more grateful when you do allow them to come.

I call that a win/win, but I’m an evil succubi. 

All of these games can be combined into a stroke, or wank schedule, where you assign your partner edging and other masturbation games when you can’t be with them in person, or leading up to a big night out.

This can be great for married couples who might have a weekend away from the kids coming up. Planning where you are going to have a kid free dinner is fun, but planning stroke games for each other to play in the shower every morning leading up to the night out will give you something to talk about at that dinner besides the kids. To make that dinner out even more entertaining, check into the hotel, tease and deny each other in the strange new bed, then head out to dinner with your libido abuzz. That just might send you back to the hotel to rip each other cloths off like newly weds before desert. If you are going to do something like this, each person needs to make sure the other has time to complete their assignment. Make a special effort to take the kids while your partner completes their assignment in peace. You will appreciate it later, I promise.

Examples of wank games:

Pull a random card. Each suit represents a different sex toy or activity. The number on the card represents how many minutes you get to do that activity. Jacks mean pull again and double the number. Queens means they can have an orgasm. King means no play time at all. Adjust for you interests etc. Protip: Take the Queens out of the deck without the teasee knowing.

Roll two dice. The first die represents an activity, nipple clamps, butt plug, etc. The second represents how many times they have to brink. I’ve played this with a six sided die for the activity, and a 50 (or higher!) sided die for the number of brinks.

And of course, games like strip poker can be twisted for a fun little D/s play. The first person naked gets a spanking? Or maybe you can keep playing and the first person naked has to wear nipple clamps, then a gag, then a butt plug.

If you want to keep things simple, use the count down method. If date night is 7 days away, have your partner brink 7 times the first day, 6 times the second, 5 the third and so on until they are edging once the day before. For a little extra torment, time it so the day before the big event, they don’t get to brink at all.

Orgasm games create and amazing feedback loop of communication and erotic energy. All of these games stir the sexual pot, while taking the attention off traditional penis in vagina sex. They help bring a sense of playfulness into the bedroom, and aid in communication as each partner learns to talk about what turns them one. And the more turned on you get, the easier it is to talk about what turns you on.

Now go invest in some pretty, pretty dice and a new deck of cards!

Tease, Denial, and Riding the Edge

“BRINK!” He exclaims loudly, pulling his hands back from his crotch where they had, moments before, been stroking furiously. Before the word has cleared the air, his hands are back at their job.

“BRINK!!” He says again, almost immediately after resuming his all important task.

The entire time, his eyes are closed and his face is pressed into the bottom of my stockinged foot. I could be reading a book for all he knows.

Sometimes, out of sheer boredom, I do take a peek at my msgs on my phone.

The only other sound in the dungeon for nearly the entire time he is at my feet is the soft music playing in the background and the sound of my counting each and every one of his “BRINK’s!” During our two hours together, there will be more then a hundred.

Yes – as in, about one a minute.  I’m continually amazed at his endurance.

He books two weeks in advance and I assign him a different number for each of the days before our appointment. He must bring himself to the edge that many times each day. Sometimes they are very low numbers. Anything less then a 5 is EXTREMELY frustrating for an edger, so I love to throw a couple 1’s and 2’s in there. And of course, a couple 40’s or 50’s for real sport. No orgasm is allowed during this time, and as a true fetishist, in preparation for this two week period, he’s usually already gone two or even three weeks with out orgasm.

And at the end of our time together, he will not be allowed to orgasm.  He would probably be physically unable at that point anyway.  Generally towards the end of the session the BRINK! is starting to come slower and slower as exhaustion sets in and his brain finally catches on and decides it doesn’t want to play anymore. Occasionally his erection will even subside – not that that will stop his furious stroking. Even if it did, I would demand he continue. He will be sent home to edge a couple more days before he is finally allowed to release.

What’s your favorite part of Sex? Orgasm? Really? Think about it….

The moment right before you orgasm, you are thinking; “OMFG I’m Gonna Cum!” There’s all the excitement of leaving on any fun exciting adventure. Adrenaline rushes. Blood starts to flow. All your cares in the world are forgotten.

When you are actually cumming, you are moments from the bittersweet end.

Also? When you orgasm, especially men, it’s Game Over. But you can ride that edge… again, and again… and again.. and? Again.

Of course the benefit to me, is that the more wound up you get, the more over taken with desire, and the the end to cum burns within you – and the more I refuse it, the more docile and obedient you will get. The more eager to please. And I do so love it when you are eager to please.

Do you want to please me?