Portland Dominatrix and BDSM Educator

Welcome perveratti! I am Portland Oregon based dominatrix, BDSM educator and kink mentor. I co-own Sub Rosa, a lux private fetish space dedicated to learning about, and indulging in kink and BDSM located not far from downtown PDX. I offer professional domination to sincere submissives and bottoms, as well as BDSM coaching and instruction to femmes and couples. Your taboo fantasies are my playground. I have 20+ years of experience so no matter your interests, I probably have just the experience and toys needed to indulge in them.

Both pretty and smart, I’ve been quoted by Playboy, as well as Business Insider.


During these times of self distancing I am not taking in-person appointments but I am available through Niteflirts by appointment for distance training. If we already know each other and you are ready to take your training further, let me know and we can set up a distance training program that will ensure you come out of this quarantine a better person.

If you would like to support or serve me during the pandemic

  • OnlyFans for a closer look at my life and playmates, past and present
  • Niteflirt for phone sessions and audio content
  • I Want Clips for video clips
  • AVN Stars for a closer look at my life and playmates, past and present
  • SextPanther for submitting via text

Stay safe, and I look forward to seeing you at my feet soon.

Portland Dominatrix Natasha Strange

Ethical Sensual Sadist and BDSM Educator Natasha Strange and professional switch Morningstar

Playful Dominatrix

I operate under three basic tenets. You will suffer for me. You will serve me. And in return, I will transform you.

My Path to Being a Professional Dominatrix

I started working at a fetish and fantasy house just outside of San Francisco called Fantasy Makers in 1994. While I started as a switch, and enjoyed it as a learning experience, I quickly found myself drawn to playing the role as the Dominant Sadistic Goddess – with a wicked sense of humor. I spent twenty years based in San Francisco, much of it working out of the beautiful Maison de la Maitresse. In 2010 I started offering BDSM Education under the name Mona Darling to women and couples and published Kinky Sex Tips for Curious Girls in 2018. I also had a popular weekly show on O.School called #KinkWithMona. I opened Sub Rosa, a fetish and education space with the illustrious Mistress Viola in 2018 as a place to play, learn and celebrate BDSM.

Submit to your Desires. Escape into your alternate kinky reality with me.

White Crown
Portland Dominatrix Worship

Power Exchange and Fetish Play

I’m well known for my love of sissification and often have submissives come to PDX from around the country to spend a full day dressed and serving me. I have taught classes on the joys of sissification and gender play to other FemDoms and as well as curious submissives. In 2019 I published sissy sandra’s blog to kindle so you can read the true and delightfully twisted story of our 10+ year D/s relationship.

In addition to sissification, I love bondage, electrical, OTK, impact play and all the tradition BDSM games and thrive on bringing the more taboo games into play as well. Diaper humiliation, age play, gender bending, zentai, strange fetishes and weird roleplays all thrill me. Above all, clear open communication turns me on, so come, confess your most deviant fantasies. Submit here.

Portland Dominatrix Natasha Strange

Learn about your kinks. We all have them. Why not indulge?

White Crown
Portland Dominatrix Sensual Sadist

 BDSM Coaching and Education

I believe that all people come to kink and BDSM searching for an emotion or feeling – be it the endorphin high from receiving a long flogging, or spanking, or being the object of desire dressed in silky panties and treated like a cock sucking whore. Whether I’m teaching, playing or coaching, I start with the goal feelings in mind. When working with couples I find that knowing those goal feelings can help two (or more) people understand what their partners are looking for and helps kink feel less overwhelming. Learn more here.

Submit and Learn Online:

While I much prefer to see you at my feet so I can enjoy the tactile pleasures your physical submission, I understand that isn’t always possible, so these are the ways to serve me online.

Niteflirt: I offer phone sessions through Niteflirts to those who can’t serve in person or to supplement in person training.  I also offer a few recordings as “goodies” for you to perve on. I don’t have regular hours, but should you reachout, I can set a time for you to serve me.

AVN Stars: The place I post fun photos of sessions as well as other naughty things. Lots of really old weird photos from my career will be uploaded over the next couple weeks and months.

I Want Clips: Video and audio clips for sale. Check back often.

SextPanther: A fun place to exchange sexts and pictures/videos. A great way to submit when you can’t submit in person.

Amazon Wish List: The best way to show your subservience from afar. Gifts are one of my love languages.

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